Learn How to Stop the Stress Cycle
Getting stressed is pretty easy really. Most of us can manage it all by ourselves without any outsideassistance. Just in case you need help in increasing your stress levels here are a few sure-fire tactics
you can use.
Sleep less
Not getting enough zzzs will make you cranky and wired. You need at least eight hours of sleep tofunction well. At times of pressure you may even need more. Sleep resets our hormone levels and
protects us against stress and depression.
Drink energy drinks
Just one of these drinks elevates your levels of adrenaline (a stress hormone) to five times the normallevel for five hours after drinking. These drinks are often high in caffeine, aspartame and sugars all of
which increase your stress levels. Add to that eating a lot of junk food that is full of carbohydrates and
you’ll have a brain that is not only stressed out, it will also feel sludgy and tired.
Be inactive
Sitting around doing nothing can be great but if you are already a bit stressed, it will help the worries tobuild and circle like vultures.
Isolate yourself
You’re a big powerful person right? You don't need help from anyone else. Pretend that:• no one else on earth has ever felt this way and they have no useful ideas that could help you
in any way; and
• even if you did ask them they wouldn't care enough about you to help.
When you are really stressed you can't think straight so to rely on yourself alone to sort things out is one
of the best ways to make sure your worries continue.
Thinking about the outcome not the process
Focusing and worrying about final exams, upcoming performances or future social situations will not
only increase your stress it will fill you with dread as well.
Work Harder
The logic here is that if working harder got you into this state, it is going to take even more hard work toget you out of it. Especially crazy, but if it’s feeling stressed that you want, this is a good way of getting
it.
Escape into computer games
Playing computer games can be a good distraction. Play them for a long time and you will end upfeeling wired and listless.
Talk about being busy
We can talk ourselves into being stressed. Telling everyone how busy and tired you are becomes a wayof increasing your own sense of being wired and exhausted.
Facebook Fretting
Once you are feeling stressed go on Facebook and check other friends’ Facebook profiles. Seeing allthe fun stuff they’ve been doing while you’ve been worry should help you to feel much, much worse.
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How to calm yourself down
We can get so used to feeling stressed that it can feel weird to wind down and relax. As soon as westart to chill out we get jumpy and feel worse. If this sounds familiar, it’s a sure sign you do need to
stress less but know it is going to take a bit of time and few practice runs before you’ll notice any
changes.
Don't think about the end result, focus on the steps you have to take today to get to that
outcome
Lots of anxiety is thinking about how future events will turn out. Will I pass this test? Will they like me?
Do I have enough friends? Try to tame your mind so that you stop thinking about questions you can’t
know the answer to. Instead practice narrowing your attention to what you can do right now.
Exercise
Being physically active lowers our stress levels. Exercise increases blood flow to the smart parts of ourbrains where problems can get solved. When we sit or lie still for too long the more primitive parts of our
brain kicks in and our thoughts go around and around.
Movements where you move rhythmically are especially good for reducing stress. Dancing, surfing,
drumming, roller-skating, table tennis, swimming, juggling, down ball, volleyball, boxing and gymnastics
are all rhythmic movements.
Write it out
Get your worries out of your head. Write them down on a sheet of paper. Map them out usingInspiration or Kidspiration. Make a note or a voice memo on your phone.
Know that everyone has worries.
All human beings worry at times so don’t feel strange or odd or different. Just learn that you can find
yourself worrying at times, just like everyone else.
Talk to someone you trust
Now you know everyone gets stressed at times, tell someone you can rely on about feeling worried.Even if they don't have any suggestions for you, just telling someone makes a difference.
Breath deeply
When you feel stressed, take a moment to breathe deeply. Put your hand on your belly and take a big
breath. Then slowly breathe out as you count to yourself, “one thousand, two thousand, three
thousand”. Slowing down your breathing resets your body.
Drink water
Drinking water lowers the level of cortisol (a stress hormone) in your body.Stop mind juggling start doing
Lots of people when they get stressed freeze up and feel like they can't start anything.Start somewhere. Your first attempt doesn't have to be the perfect answer. Getting started builds
momentum and confidence.
Use a mood shift playlist
Music is a powerful way of lessening stress. Make a playlist of your best feel good songs and play whenyou find the worries are creeping in
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